This is really the problem, we feel like we should be in control. That we need to have a purpose and plan. However, as Jesus taught us it is not our will that is important but God’s. When he gave us the manner in which to pray He says in verse 10 of Matthew 6:
Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.
It is really about putting ourselves in the right position in relation to Almighty God, our Heavenly Father. It is a place of submission and selling out to His purpose and desire. This puts Him in control of the outcome and takes the pressure off us. A great place to be! God Bless!